Patience, Love, and Hope with a Side of Autism and Fishies
Life Lessons & Adventures Raising Children on the Autism Spectrum
I traveled home recently for a significant family funeral. It was not the ideal setting to be able to reconnect with family and friends who I had not seen in years, but it was a true silver lining in the midst of such sadness. I traveled alone which was hard because I would’ve loved my … Continue reading Show Up
This week I had a gut check. I was brought back to reality. I was told my son is not making gains academically and it has come time to consider a new educational path for him. I wasn’t shocked and knew it was coming, but what has become the most soul-sucking is the fact that … Continue reading Pivot
Nico turns 10 today. On December 6, 2012, the most amazing little person entered my life. From the start, he moved to his own beat and picked his own path. Came when he was ready, certainly not when I was…ha. Nico Raul Luna ushered in a whole new world for me and he has continued … Continue reading 10 Wondrous Years
I am finding that my life has become a juggling act lately and a new ball is constantly being tossed into the mix without much warning. I suppose this is what you sign up for when you become a (special needs) parent and work full time. I know I am not unique in my circumstances … Continue reading Marathon, not a Sprint
Nico is a third grader this year and with each new year comes new triumphs and challenges. That’s typical for all kids, I’m sure, but couple that with the uncertainty of autism, and how it will present itself each growing year and it becomes a heavy weight to carry. Nico’s second grade year was not … Continue reading Renewed Hope
We’re down by the coast for the 4th of July weekend. I am trying to fill our summers with at least a couple weekend trips and one big family vacation to ensure I am making memories with the boys and getting Nico out into new environments as much as possible. Now, this is no easy … Continue reading It’s All Happening
Updated 5/25/2022: Two teachers were killed in this school shooting, not just one as originally mentioned in my post. Rest In Peace. I am at a loss. I cannot quite grasp what has taken place on this day, May 24, 2022 in a town just 85 miles south of where I live. I cannot comprehend … Continue reading I Only Wish
Nico has been having meltdowns and fits at school recently. We’re not sure what triggers them most times since we hear about them after the fact, but honestly, it could be for a hundred different reasons. He has a solid routine that his teacher team and my husband and I developed together months back, so … Continue reading Choose To Be Humane
It’s Teacher Appreciation Week and I have been so excited to take part in spoiling the teachers at my son’s school. The sentiments aren’t necessarily grand and outdone, but they were planned with love and compassion and, above all, immense appreciation for these incredible individuals who move mountains for our kids everyday. Teaching is such … Continue reading Appreciate the Little Things
My kid has some excellent taste in music! It ranges from Disney songs to indie rock, to movie soundtracks! Nico loves to dance so when I have teachers and therapists who want to know how to connect with him, I love to share his favorite songs. Music will open Nico's door to you! Carried Away-Passion … Continue reading Nico’s Favorite Songs
Patience, Love, and Hope with a Side of Autism and Fishies 